Sunday, June 3, 2012

Online Dating

If you were lucky to find a special person to share your life without using online dating, I am so jealous.

I have been told that online dating is my best chance at finding a guy. I am hoping that is not the case. If I that is true, here are my conclusions:
-I have not received a match from eharmony in almost 2 months. I even changed my criteria to the whole US. Does that mean that there is no one who is compatible with me in the entire US? I am hoping that is not true!
-Most guys I talk to online think that pre-marital sex is just fine has long as you aren't sleeping around.
-Guys are eager to meet after 30 minutes of chatting and then not so eager after I suggest a little more time. I wonder what they really want from online dating.
-Only good Christian dating site requires a 6 month commitment.
-Multiple people tell me that in Lancaster, good Christian guys get married by the age of 25. Does that mean that I start dating 23 year olds or move to a place where they don't get married young?

I think I am done with online dating. There is a small chance that I will join Equally Yoked. I just need to stop listening to my non-Christian friends that tell me that I need to lower my standards if I expect to find a man. Start trusting that my God has a plan for me that is better than anything I could dream of! He is has never failed me in any other area of my life. Why do I have such a hard time believing that God has a plan for my love life?

Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you" this is the Lord's declaration "plans for your welfare, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope,"

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